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Thursday
Dec292011

Gay website founder sues firms, directors

Adapted from The Straits Times  18 Dec 2011

A founder of popular gay networking site Fridae.com has filed a lawsuit against the portal's holding company, subsidiaries and board of directors.

Dr Stuart Koe, who started the website in 2000, claims they owe him $260,000 and conspired against him to forfeit his shares in the portal.

Tuesday
Dec132011

Foreign 'masseurs' muscle in on escort trade 

Source: The Straits Times  20 Nov 2011

They advertise their services online and enter Singapore as tourists

Dane (not his real name), 30, has been an escort serving male clients for five years. He used to face competition only from other Singaporeans in the industry.

But for about a year now, he has been coming up against foreigners in this discreet trade.

Their job is to provide a massage, and then "extra services" or a "happy ending", if required.

The foreigners come here for two weeks to a month, promote themselves on Internet websites and via mobile applications, and then leave for a nearby country.

Many of them advertise their services by establishing profiles on websites designed for gay men to meet one another. These sites are international, but have thriving Singapore sections.

Some peddle their services more directly on general classified sites such as Craigslist.

A glance through these profiles and ads shows the majority of these foreign escorts and masseurs are from countries like China, Indonesia and the Philippines. There are also Caucasian escorts, while those from China are so popular there is even a website dedicated to them.

Mr Tan Kok Kee, a gender and sexuality scholar from the University of Illinois, who has done research on gay men and gay culture in Singapore for eight years, said the influx of foreign escorts could be due to a general importation of foreigners and the attraction of easy money.

Foreigners contacted said they entered the country on the normal tourist "social visit" pass, and claimed to be unaware that it is illegal for them to work while here.

Nearly all of the escorts advertise themselves as trained masseurs.

One Indonesian masseur, who advertised himself on an iPhone app called Grindr, said his massage company is based in Jakarta, and that he is in Singapore for only two weeks.

He declined to say how much he has earned, but said it is his second time here, and that he is open to accompanying men for dinner or shopping.

According to individuals contacted and the advertisements, rates range from $80 to $200 per hour, inclusive of extra services.

In comparison, escort agency rates average about $400 per hour, with the escort taking home half the amount.

Services are provided at hotels most of the time, and at the customers' homes.

Nine out of 10 escorts The Sunday Times contacted, both Singaporeans and foreigners, say the massages come with "extra services".

Most of them serve both male and female clients, and said they can "go all the way" with both genders.

The customers are usually married men - who need the most private transactions - and other professionals in their 30s and 40s. They include expats and Singaporeans.

Local escort agencies say they are feeling the heat from foreign imports.

A spokesman for JM Escort and Models, which has been in the male escort industry for eight years, said business has been declining and it has been forced to find customers in other ways, so as not to compete on the same platform.

"It's been happening for about a year, but it's getting a bit out of control," he said.

Asked why there has been a recent proliferation of foreign competitors, he said: "The prices in Singapore are high, they earn more over here than in their own country."

Also, since these escorts are not operating in their own country, and they do not have friends or family here, they can promote themselves quite openly online.

Another local escort, who wanted to be known only as Ryan, said: "My business is still steady, but I can tell that previously there weren't many foreigners giving competition. Now there are more."

The 25-year-old is more optimistic, however, adding that society has started to open up, so there will accordingly be greater demand for these services. Since the pie is growing, naturally the supply of escorts will increase, he reckoned.

Escort agencies and social escorts The Sunday Times spoke to said the influx of foreigners is being partly driven by the Internet, which has traditionally been the main avenue to reach the gay community.

Direct contact with clients means escorts can bypass agents; using the Internet also means the trade - a taboo topic in Singapore - is not brought into the open.

Escorts like Dane say they go for HIV testing every three months, and that they insist on safety when oral sex or intercourse is involved.

A spokesman for Action for Aids said there are measures in place to address health risks.

She said: "Volunteers reach out to those who are in the male escort services as part of their overall education and outreach programmes."

But the legal status of such service providers is at best murky.

Lawyers said these escorts - and their clients - are unlikely to be charged under Singapore's prostitution laws, which are female- oriented, but they could technically run afoul of Section 377A of the Penal Code, which criminalises homosexual sex. The penalty is a jail term of up to two years.

Many of the foreigners advertise their services by establishing profiles on websites designed for gay men to meet one another. These sites are international, but have Singapore sections.

Tuesday
Oct112011

Ladies' Night: Host bar scene in Singapore thrives 

Midnight strikes and the stage lights suddenly come on. It is showtime for some 30 sharply dressed young men who strut out in suits, perfectly styled hair in the vein of K-pop stars, and enough foundation on their faces to support Marina Bay Sands' triple towers.

They sashay, strike poses - beauty-pageant-style - and dutifully line up along the stage with their number tags. Then, one by one, the men - mostly Thais in their 20s and 30s - come forward for their three minutes in the spotlight, belting out popular Chinese and Thai love ballads.

As they warble, most slightly off-key, women in the crowd titter, pointing to the men who catch their eye. Whispers are exchanged between the women and the person who takes charge of the guys - the papa-san, as he is called - who then goes on stage and bestows the lucky chosen ones with plastic flower garlands and satin sashes.

Each garland goes for $50 or $100, while sashes can top $5,000 each. The papa-san blows a whistle as he is doing this, and the rest of the boys clap in envy. This is typically what happens in a host bar where, as a nightclub in Cuppage Plaza proudly proclaims on a banner hanging on the stage: The men are hot, and the women are God.

Nightclubs The Sunday Times spoke to insist that their foreign employees are on legitimate work passes, such as a performing artiste work permit. But some of the men said that they were on social visit passes.

The MOM spokesman said the number of social visit pass holders caught working illegally here - including those working in nightclubs - averaged 550 each year between 2008 and last year.

A social visit pass - generally valid for 30 days - allows a person to stay in the country for the purpose of business or leisure.

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  • Host bar owners say demand for such bars, already popular in cities like Bangkok and Toyko, has grown in recent years. Online forum Lady Bar Bar lists at least 10 here.
  • Most of the men hail from Thailand and China, and few from Singapore.
Friday
Sep302011

Man caught with three women in obscene act

Souce: Todayonline  30 Sep 2011

An Australian man was fined S$1,500 yesterday for committing an obscene act in a Prinsep Street nightspot at around 11pm on Tuesday.

Aaron Benjamin Butcher, 36, was caught with a woman performing an indecent act on him inside a KTV room at the Embazy club.

The woman, Avila Rosela Mae Mallon, 22, failed to turn up in court yesterday. Neither did two of her colleagues, Lumbre Carla Jane Alaras and Cacho Jaquelyn Rosario, both 23 years old, who were allegedly found inside the same KTV room with their breasts exposed. 

TODAY understands that the trio are believed to be employed by the company that owns Embazy. However, it is alleged they were not supposed to be working in that particular nightspot.

Warrants of arrest have been issued against the three Filipino women. 

Appearing in a state of undress in a public place is an offence. If convicted, Alaras and Rosario can each be jailed up to three months, fined a maximum of S$2,000 or both.

In a media statement, the police said that the group was arrested during a licensing check operation at entertainment outlets that evening. 

Monday
Sep262011

Circular Road area near Boat Quay is latest to get seedy reputation 

Source: The Sunday Times   25 Sep 2011

As soon as darkness descends, dozens of scantily clad women emerge under neon signs and hover around the entrances of their establishments.

'Darling,' they call out coyly to passers-by, 'come in for a drink, you'll have a good time, I promise.'

This is the new reality for many patrons who frequent Circular Road, a stretch of shophouses behind Boat Quay now packed with pubs with names like Kriselle and Mambo 5.

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  • As many as 15 such bars have sprung up along along both sides of the Circular Road.
  • The girls, mostly Filipinas wearing tube tops, short skirts and fishnet stockings park themselves outside the bars in groups of four or five. They call out to perspective male patrons who walk by and at times, even try to pull them into the bars.
  • The police said that while they have not seen an increase in crime in the area, they will continue to carry out frequent patrols.