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<!--Generated by Squarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.156 (http://www.squarespace.com) on Sun, 19 May 2013 19:37:11 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Sex In The City (Singapore)</title><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/</link><description></description><lastBuildDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 05:12:26 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.156 (http://www.squarespace.com)</generator><item><title>Sentosa Cove Pool Death</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 05:06:03 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2013/4/24/sentosa-cove-pool-death.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:33427962</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Askmelah's Note: A rich bastard, a gold digger and a grieving parent - the lure of money ended in tragedy with mystery unsolved.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/6184/sentosa-cove-pool-death/">lifeisreallybeautiful.com</a></p>
<p>When the verdict on his daughter&rsquo;s death was read out yesterday at a  Coroner&rsquo;s Inquiry at the Subordinate Courts, Mr Li Kui You, 58, could  only lay his head on the table.</p>
<p>The soya-bean farmer, who arrived in Singapore with two relatives on  Christmas night, was too despondent to raise his head when State Coroner  Victor Yeo ruled that there was no foul play and that Ms Li Hong Yan&rsquo;s  death was an accident. Evidence from police investigations showed that  Ms Li, 24, whose naked body was found face-down in a Sentosa Cove  bungalow pool in March, did not take her own life.</p>
<p>Wearing a dark blue Mao jacket, Mr Li looked tired and sombre. He  broke down when answering journalists&rsquo; questions about his daughter.</p>
<div id="attachment_6200" class="aligncenter wp-caption" style="width: 415px;"><a href="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Li-Hong-Yans-parents-Madam-Sun-Jing-Fang-left-49-and-Mr-Li-Kui-You-58..jpg"><img class="wp-image-6200 size-full" title="Li Hong Yan's parents, Madam Sun Jing Fang (left), 49, and Mr Li Kui You, 58." src="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Li-Hong-Yans-parents-Madam-Sun-Jing-Fang-left-49-and-Mr-Li-Kui-You-58..jpg" alt="" width="405" height="290" /></a>
<p class="wp-caption-text">Li Hong Yan's parents, Madam Sun Jing Fang (left), 49, and Mr Li Kui You, 58.</p>
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<p>Prior to Ms Li&rsquo;s death, her family and relatives had been under the  impression that she had come to Singapore to be a hairdresser, for which  she received training in China.</p>
<p>&ldquo;She was such a sweet girl who never lost her temper. She got along  with everyone,&rdquo; said Madam Fang Shu Hui, 57, who accompanied Mr Li to  court yesterday. Madam Fang is the mother-in-law of Ms Li&rsquo;s elder  sister.</p>
<p>Mr Yeo concluded that the freelance KTV hostess drowned accidentally as she swam in the pre-dawn hours of March 24 this year.</p>
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<p class="wp-caption-text">The body of Li Hong Yan, 24, a Chinese national, was found in the pool of a bungalow at Sentosa Cove.</p>
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<p>Ms Li had spent the night at the house with its owner, Mr Adrian Chua  Boon Chye. Mr Chua&rsquo;s maid Aye Aye Tun, 26, a Myanmar national, was  tidying up the study, which was overlooking the pool, when she saw the  naked body floating face-down.</p>
<p>Ms Li arrived from Heilongjiang province in China last year and was  employed as an assistant supervisor at an Indian eatery in Jalan Besar.  Meanwhile, she moonlighted as a KTV hostess at a nightclub in Outram  Road. She quit her supervisor job in early March to become a full-time  hostess.</p>
<div id="attachment_6201" class="aligncenter wp-caption" style="width: 460px;"><a href="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Chinese-national-Li-Hong-Yan-left-24-whose-naked-body-was-found-in-the-lap-pool-of-a-bungalow-has-been-said-to-resemble-Chinese-actress-Zhang-Ziyi-right.1.jpg"><img class="wp-image-6201 size-full" title="Chinese national Li Hong Yan (left), 24, whose naked body was found in the lap pool of a bungalow, has been said to resemble Chinese actress Zhang Ziyi (right)." src="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Chinese-national-Li-Hong-Yan-left-24-whose-naked-body-was-found-in-the-lap-pool-of-a-bungalow-has-been-said-to-resemble-Chinese-actress-Zhang-Ziyi-right.1.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="253" /></a>
<p class="wp-caption-text">Chinese  national Li Hong Yan (left), 24, whose naked body was found in the lap  pool of a bungalow, has been said to resemble Chinese actress Zhang Ziyi  (right).</p>
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<p>It was at the nightclub that she hooked up with Mr Adrian Chua, 39,  chief executive realty-investment firm Roundhill Capital. He  affectionately called her &ldquo;Wawa&rdquo;, or &ldquo;doll&rdquo; in Mandarin and had taken  her to his multi-million-dollar home in Sentosa Cove at least twice  previously, each time paying her $800 for an evening&rsquo;s companionship.</p>
<div id="attachment_6238" class="aligncenter wp-caption" style="width: 260px;"><a href="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Adrian-Chua-Boon-Chye.jpg"><img class="wp-image-6238 size-full" title="Adrian Chua Boon Chye" src="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Adrian-Chua-Boon-Chye.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="350" /></a>
<p class="wp-caption-text">Adrian Chua Boon Chye</p>
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<p>On March 24, they had sex and at about 7am, Mr Chua&rsquo;s 26-year-old  maid, Myanmar national Aye Aye Tun, found Ms Li floating face down in  his pool.</p>
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<p>Mr Chua said he had sex with Ms Li, after which he fell asleep at around 4am.</p>
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<p class="wp-caption-text">Li Hong Yan</p>
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<p>A toxicology test showed Li&rsquo;s blood contained 125mg/100ml of ethanol. The legal limit for drink-driving is 70mg.</p>
<p>Closed-circuit television (CCTV) footage showed images of Ms Li  unlocking the sliding doors leading to the pool at 3.48am. She was alone  and fully clothed.</p>
<p>Mr Yeo said: &ldquo;I am of the view that, at the pool-deck area, she  removed her clothes so as not to get them wet.&rdquo; There was no CCTV camera  installed in the outdoor area.</p>
<p>Mr Yeo surmised that Ms Li, who could not swim, had difficulty  keeping her head above water after stepping into the pool. The coroner  said that it was also possible she could have slipped while walking down  the steps of the pool and sustained the 2cm by 1cm bruise on her left  knee. But he ruled out foul play as there were no evidence or injuries  that indicated she was attacked. Her colleagues and flat-mates also said  that she was cheerful and did not appear to have any problems.</p>
<p>Ms Li is 1.54m tall and the pool&rsquo;s maximum depth is 1.5m. The lights  inside and around the pool were not switched on. As Mr Chua had  previously taken her to the pool deck to chat and smoke, Mr Yeo said Ms  Li probably went there again to smoke, adding that Ms Aye Aye Tun found  Mr Chua&rsquo;s cigarettes and lighter with Ms Li&rsquo;s clothes.</p>
<p>Mr Chua said he was woken up by two Sentosa Cove security personnel  at 8am. &ldquo;I was shocked to hear that a naked woman was found drowned in  my pool,&rdquo; he said.</p>
<p>Mr Chua, 39, is the founder and chief executive officer of Roundhill  Capital, a real estate investment advisory firm, registered in Singapore  under his residential address. He is unmarried and is said to have  lived at the three-storey house along Ocean Drive for over a year.</p>
<div id="attachment_6237" class="aligncenter wp-caption" style="width: 460px;"><a href="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/The-bungalow-at-Sentosa-Cove.gif"><img class="wp-image-6237 size-full" title="The bungalow at Sentosa Cove" src="http://lifeisreallybeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/The-bungalow-at-Sentosa-Cove.gif" alt="" width="450" height="260" /></a>
<p class="wp-caption-text">The bungalow at Sentosa Cove</p>
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<p>He has since sold the Sentosa property. He appeared calm yesterday as  he took the stand, looking steadily at Mr Li and his relatives when Mr  Yeo asked them if they had any questions for him. Mr Li could only shake  his head and bury his face in his folded arms, saying in Mandarin that  he was confused.</p>
<p>He was similarly dazed when two members of the public handed him about $500 in cash.</p>
<p>His eyes moist with tears, Mr Li could only utter: &ldquo;Thank you.&rdquo;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-33427962.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Singaporno?</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2012 18:08:07 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2012/9/2/singaporno.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:27034561</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Source: The New Paper, 30 Aug 2012</p>
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<p>A three-minute-long trailer for a Japanese porn movie has been circulating online - and it features iconic buildings here.</p>
<p>The 160-minute-long video was uploaded on a Japanese porn site last Saturday. It stars Japanese porn actress Aoki Misora and depicts a couple on holiday in Singapore.</p>
<p>In one scene, the female lead cavorts in a bikini at the Infinity Pool at Marina Bay Sands (MBS).</p>
<p>In response, a spokesman for MBS said that this was a case of unauthorised filming and they will be looking into the matter.</p>
<p>Controversy aside, could this film provide exposure for Singapore? And would that be a good or bad thing?</p>
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</div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-27034561.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Nine charged in case involving underage Vietnamese sex workers</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 04:38:11 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2012/3/31/nine-charged-in-case-involving-underage-vietnamese-sex-worke.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:15663235</guid><description><![CDATA[<div id="ctl00_cph1_ArticleContents1_authorNameTag" class="authorName">Source: CHANNEL NEWSASIA&nbsp; Mar 31, 2012</div>
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<p>Nine men were charged in court yesterday in connection with a case involving underage sex workers.<br /><br /> Of the nine, six men were charged with having sex with underage  prostitutes. The men, aged 24 to 59, were accused of obtaining the  sexual services of three Vietnamese girls, aged between 16 and 17 in  July last year. They allegedly paid the girls between S$100 and S$200  per session.<br /><br /> The accused are Loh Kian Ann, 55; Yee Yew  Seng, 45; Chan See Sean, 40; Wee Lian Kee, 54; Seah Seng Kok, 59 and  Justin Guo Zhijia, 24.<br /><br /> It is illegal to pay for sex with  anyone under the age of 18. If convicted, they could be jailed up to  seven years, fined or both.<br /><br /> The other three men were  charged with abetting the offences of the six men in March, June and  July last year and will face the same penalties as the six men. <br /><br /> The trio are Loy Hee Cheng, 69; Tan Wah Eng, 60 and Chong Heng Kow, 52.<br /><br /> The case is unrelated to a probe into an online prostitution ring, which surfaced last month.</p>
<p><strong><span class="headline">Nine Face Charges of Underage Sex</span></strong></p>
<p><span class="headline">Souce: The Straits Times&nbsp; </span><span class="caption">March 31, 2012</span></p>
<p>Nine men aged between 24 and 68 were hauled to court yesterday to face charges of commercial sex with underage girls.<br /><br />They  each face between one and three charges of paying $100 to $200 for the  sexual services of Vietnamese prostitutes, who were below 18 years of  age, between March and July last year.<br /><br />Anyone convicted of having  commercial sex with a person under 18 can be jailed for up to seven  years, fined, or both. The law took effect in February 2008.<br /><br />Two 17-year-olds and a 16-year-old were involved. They cannot be named due to a gag order.<br /><br />Chan  See Sean, 40, unemployed, was charged with three counts &mdash; twice for  paying $120 to a 16-year-old girl and once to a 17-year-old for their  services in July last year.<br /><br />Chong Heng Kow, 53, allegedly  conspired with Seng Swee Meng, 42, and his Vietnamese wife, Ngo Tien,  31, to pay $100 for the younger girl&rsquo;s services at Fragrance Ruby Hotel  in Geylang on July 3.<br /><br />He is also accused of having paid sex with the girl at Four Chain View Hotel in Geylang Road 12 days later.<br /><br />Justin  Guo Zhijia, 24, a student, was charged with having paid $100 twice to  have sex with the girl at a house in Yio Chu Kang last July.<br /><br />Wee Lian Kee, 54, is alleged to have paid $180 to have sex with the girl at Hup Hoe Hotel in Geylang Road on July 7.<br /><br />Loh  Kian Ann, 55, allegedly paid $120 on each of two occasions for sex with  the second 17-year-old girl at Four Chain View Hotel last July.<br /><br />In the same month, Yee Yew Seng, 45, allegedly paid $200 and $170 for sex with the same girl at Hotel 12 in Geylang.<br /><br />Tan Wah Eng, 60, allegedly conspired with Seng and his wife to have paid sex with the girl at Four Chain View Hotel on June 19.<br /><br />Loy  Hee Cheng, 68, faces a single charge of scheming with the couple in  March last year to have commercial sex with the 17-year-old whom Chan  had sex with.<br /><br />Seah Seng Kok, 59, was charged with paying the same girl $120 for her services at Four Chain View Hotel on July 21.<br /><br />Seng,  a pimp, has since pleaded guilty to 15 of 51 charges but has yet to be  sentenced. The case will be mentioned again on April 11.<br /><br />He  received the Vietnamese prostitutes at the airport, harbored them, lived  on their immoral earnings, managed a contact point for prostitutes and  abetted in commercial sex by instigating Chong and Tan to have sex with  two of the girls. His wife, who is at large, is said to have been  involved with him in the offences.<br /><br />Acting on a tip-off, police  raided a flat in Lorong 22, Geylang, and arrested 30 Vietnamese women  for offenses under the Women&rsquo;s Charter last Aug 2. They also seized  $44,310 and $300, among other things.<br /><br />The couple recruited the  women through agents or their friends in Vietnam to work for them as  hostesses and prostitutes in Singapore.<br /><br />The nine men&rsquo;s cases were adjourned. All except Seah, Tan and Chong were represented, and their police bails were extended.</p>
<p>Askmelah's Note: Read more on the social implication of this unfortunate episode: <strong><a href="http://gintai.wordpress.com/2012/04/19/2524/">44 Itchy Monkeys &amp; One Lascivious&nbsp;Imp</a></strong></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-15663235.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>"Online prostitution ring" under probe</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 08:02:00 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2012/2/14/online-prostitution-ring-under-probe.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:15027664</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Source: ChannelNewsAsia&nbsp; 11 Feb 2012</p>
<p><span id="advenueINTEXT"><span>Singapore police are investigating a suspected online prostitution operation.<br /><br />A number of public servants, including a former school principal, are believed to be assisting in the probe.<br /><br />The police said this is part of on-going enforcement efforts to clamp down on vice syndicates.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.askmelah.com/storage/20111230.191237_20111230-vice.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1329206608795" alt="" /></span></span><br /></span></span></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-15027664.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Jailed for keeping mum on HIV status</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 01:47:11 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2012/2/14/jailed-for-keeping-mum-on-hiv-status.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:15023617</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Adapted from The Straits Times&nbsp; 4 Feb 2012</p>
<p>A man infected with HIV was jailed for 18 months on Wednesday for  having sex with another man without first revealing his HIV status. The former engineer, aged 27, had pleaded guilty to the January 2009 offence last month.</p>
<p>The accused could have been fined up to $50,000 and/or jailed for up to 10 years.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-15023617.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Gay website founder sues firms, directors</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:29:55 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2011/12/29/gay-website-founder-sues-firms-directors.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:14364764</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="title">Adapted from The Straits Times&nbsp; 18 Dec 2011</span></p>
<p>A founder of popular gay  networking site Fridae.com has filed a lawsuit against the portal's  holding company, subsidiaries and board of directors.</p>
<p>Dr Stuart  Koe, who started the website in 2000, claims they owe him $260,000 and  conspired against him to forfeit his shares in the portal.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-14364764.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Foreign 'masseurs' muscle in on escort trade</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 02:19:38 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2011/12/13/foreign-masseurs-muscle-in-on-escort-trade.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:14082623</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Source: The Straits Times&nbsp; 20 Nov 2011</p>
<p>They advertise their services online and enter Singapore as tourists<br /> <br /> Dane (not his real name), 30, has been an escort serving male clients  for five years. He used to face competition only from other Singaporeans  in the industry.<br /> <br /> But for about a year now, he has been coming up against foreigners in this discreet trade.<br /> <br /> Their job is to provide a massage, and then "extra services" or a "happy ending", if required.<br /> <br /> The foreigners come here for two weeks to a month, promote themselves on  Internet websites and via mobile applications, and then leave for a  nearby country.<br /> <br /> Many of them advertise their services by establishing profiles on  websites designed for gay men to meet one another. These sites are  international, but have thriving Singapore sections.<br /> <br /> Some peddle their services more directly on general classified sites such as Craigslist.<br /> <br /> A glance through these profiles and ads shows the majority of these  foreign escorts and masseurs are from countries like China, Indonesia  and the Philippines. There are also Caucasian escorts, while those from  China are so popular there is even a website dedicated to them.<br /> <br /> Mr Tan Kok Kee, a gender and sexuality scholar from the University of  Illinois, who has done research on gay men and gay culture in Singapore  for eight years, said the influx of foreign escorts could be due to a  general importation of foreigners and the attraction of easy money.<br /> <br /> Foreigners contacted said they entered the country on the normal tourist  "social visit" pass, and claimed to be unaware that it is illegal for  them to work while here.<br /> <br /> Nearly all of the escorts advertise themselves as trained masseurs.<br /> <br /> One Indonesian masseur, who advertised himself on an iPhone app called  Grindr, said his massage company is based in Jakarta, and that he is in  Singapore for only two weeks.<br /> <br /> He declined to say how much he has earned, but said it is his second  time here, and that he is open to accompanying men for dinner or  shopping.<br /> <br /> According to individuals contacted and the advertisements, rates range from $80 to $200 per hour, inclusive of extra services.<br /> <br /> In comparison, escort agency rates average about $400 per hour, with the escort taking home half the amount.<br /> <br /> Services are provided at hotels most of the time, and at the customers' homes.<br /> <br /> Nine out of 10 escorts The Sunday Times contacted, both Singaporeans and  foreigners, say the massages come with "extra services".<br /> <br /> Most of them serve both male and female clients, and said they can "go all the way" with both genders.<br /> <br /> The customers are usually married men - who need the most private  transactions - and other professionals in their 30s and 40s. They  include expats and Singaporeans.<br /> <br /> Local escort agencies say they are feeling the heat from foreign imports.<br /> <br /> A spokesman for JM Escort and Models, which has been in the male escort  industry for eight years, said business has been declining and it has  been forced to find customers in other ways, so as not to compete on the  same platform.<br /> <br /> "It's been happening for about a year, but it's getting a bit out of control," he said.<br /> <br /> Asked why there has been a recent proliferation of foreign competitors,  he said: "The prices in Singapore are high, they earn more over here  than in their own country."<br /> <br /> Also, since these escorts are not operating in their own country, and  they do not have friends or family here, they can promote themselves  quite openly online.<br /> <br /> Another local escort, who wanted to be known only as Ryan, said: "My  business is still steady, but I can tell that previously there weren't  many foreigners giving competition. Now there are more."<br /> <br /> The 25-year-old is more optimistic, however, adding that society has  started to open up, so there will accordingly be greater demand for  these services. Since the pie is growing, naturally the supply of  escorts will increase, he reckoned.<br /> <br /> Escort agencies and social escorts The Sunday Times spoke to said the  influx of foreigners is being partly driven by the Internet, which has  traditionally been the main avenue to reach the gay community.<br /> <br /> Direct contact with clients means escorts can bypass agents; using the  Internet also means the trade - a taboo topic in Singapore - is not  brought into the open.<br /> <br /> Escorts like Dane say they go for HIV testing every three months, and  that they insist on safety when oral sex or intercourse is involved.<br /> <br /> A spokesman for Action for Aids said there are measures in place to address health risks.<br /> <br /> She said: "Volunteers reach out to those who are in the male escort  services as part of their overall education and outreach programmes."<br /> <br /> But the legal status of such service providers is at best murky.<br /> <br /> Lawyers said these escorts - and their clients - are unlikely to be  charged under Singapore's prostitution laws, which are female- oriented,  but they could technically run afoul of Section 377A of the Penal Code,  which criminalises homosexual sex. The penalty is a jail term of up to  two years.<br /> <br /> Many of the foreigners advertise their services by establishing profiles  on websites designed for gay men to meet one another. These sites are  international, but have Singapore sections.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-14082623.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Ladies' Night: Host bar scene in Singapore thrives</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 03:55:59 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2011/10/11/ladies-night-host-bar-scene-in-singapore-thrives.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:13153060</guid><description><![CDATA[<div class="byline">
<p>Adapted from The Sunday Times&nbsp; 9 Oct 2011</p>
<p><strong><em>It's now a thriving scene, with at least 10 clubs where men play host to women</em></strong></p>
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<p>Midnight strikes and the stage lights suddenly  come on. It is showtime for some 30 sharply dressed young men who strut  out in suits, perfectly styled hair in the vein of K-pop stars, and  enough foundation on their faces to support Marina Bay Sands' triple  towers.</p>
<p>They sashay, strike poses -  beauty-pageant-style - and dutifully line up along the stage with their  number tags. Then, one by one, the men - mostly Thais in their 20s and  30s - come forward for their three minutes in the spotlight, belting out  popular Chinese and Thai love ballads.</p>
<p>As they warble, most slightly off-key, women in the  crowd titter, pointing to the men who catch their eye. Whispers are  exchanged between the women and the person who takes charge of the guys -  the papa-san, as he is called - who then goes on stage and bestows the  lucky chosen ones with plastic flower garlands and satin sashes.</p>
<p>Each garland goes for $50 or $100, while sashes can top  $5,000 each. The papa-san blows a whistle as he is doing this, and the  rest of the boys clap in envy. This is typically what happens in a host  bar where, as a nightclub in Cuppage Plaza proudly proclaims on a banner  hanging on the stage: The men are hot, and the women are God.</p>
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<p>Nightclubs The Sunday Times spoke to insist that their foreign   employees are on legitimate work passes, such as a performing artiste   work permit. But some of the men said that they were on social visit   passes.</p>
The MOM spokesman said the number of social visit pass  holders caught  working illegally here - including those working in  nightclubs -  averaged 550 each year between 2008 and last year.
<p>A social visit pass - generally valid for 30 days - allows a person   to stay in the country for the purpose of business or leisure.</p>
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<li>Host bar owners say demand for such bars, already popular in cities like Bangkok and Toyko, has grown in recent years. Online forum Lady Bar Bar lists at least 10 here.</li>
<li>Most of the men hail from Thailand and China, and few from Singapore.</li>
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</div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-13153060.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Man caught with three women in obscene act</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 06:27:32 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2011/9/30/man-caught-with-three-women-in-obscene-act.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:13032698</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Souce: Todayonline &nbsp;30 Sep 2011</p>
<p>An Australian man was fined S$1,500 yesterday for committing an obscene act in a Prinsep Street nightspot at around 11pm on Tuesday.<br /><br />Aaron Benjamin Butcher, 36, was caught with a woman performing an indecent act on him inside a KTV room at the Embazy club.<br /><br />The woman, Avila Rosela Mae Mallon, 22, failed to turn up in court yesterday. Neither did two of her colleagues, Lumbre Carla Jane Alaras and Cacho Jaquelyn Rosario, both 23 years old, who were allegedly found inside the same KTV room with their breasts exposed.&nbsp;<br /><br />TODAY understands that the trio are believed to be employed by the company that owns Embazy. However, it is alleged they were not supposed to be working in that particular nightspot.<br /><br />Warrants of arrest have been issued against the three Filipino women.&nbsp;<br /><br />Appearing in a state of undress in a public place is an offence. If convicted, Alaras and Rosario can each be jailed up to three months, fined a maximum of S$2,000 or both.<br /><br />In a media statement, the police said that the group was arrested during a licensing check operation at entertainment outlets that evening.&nbsp;<br /></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/rss-comments-entry-13032698.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Circular Road area near Boat Quay is latest to get seedy reputation</title><dc:creator>Askmelah</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 04:13:33 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.askmelah.com/sex-in-the-city-singapore/2011/9/26/circular-road-area-near-boat-quay-is-latest-to-get-seedy-rep.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">463344:9887628:12981736</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Source: <a href="http://www.straitstimes.com/BreakingNews/Singapore/Story/STIStory_716509.html">The Sunday Times&nbsp;&nbsp; </a>25 Sep 2011</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.askmelah.com/storage/ST_IMAGES1.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1317011727704" alt="" /></span></span>As soon as darkness descends, dozens of scantily clad women emerge  under neon signs and hover around the entrances of their establishments.</p>
<p>'Darling,' they call out coyly to  passers-by, 'come in for a drink, you'll have a good time, I promise.'</p>
<p>This is the new reality for many patrons who frequent  Circular Road, a stretch of shophouses behind Boat Quay now packed with  pubs with names like Kriselle and Mambo 5.</p>
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<li>As many as 15 such bars have sprung up along along both sides of the Circular Road.</li>
<li>The girls, mostly Filipinas wearing tube tops, short skirts and fishnet stockings park themselves outside the bars in groups of four or five. They call out to perspective male patrons who walk by and at times, even try to pull them into the bars.</li>
<li>The police said that while they have not seen an increase in crime in the area, they will continue to carry out frequent patrols.</li>
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